Life Changing Experience | How we treat

I am writing this post,as i had a life changing experience which i am sure for everyone it must look as normal thing.

Today i took a auto rickshaw (Indian tuk tuk) just as i got down from my staff bus.Many rickshaw driver were standing and i selected one who was old and i said lets take his service.

Sat in the rick and he drove in the direction of my destination.And before my destination he stopped the rick.Now,the destination was on highway.Now,he asked me Rs 20 for the fare,and normaly this fare used to be for double distance but when he asked Rs 20 i asked him for rate card to match with rating,

He showed and i found that in real it was Rs 17,I said it says Rs 17 and you asking Rs 20.When i agreed to pay Rs 20 also....and gave him Rs 100 he said doesnt have change.And then i was like you really ...making things so worse.You should atleast have Rs 100 change if you driving Rick/

I then debated little with him for same.And that old man also replied with his feary of old age...i then gave him Rs 20 looking at his age.But had lot of verbal dual.Even said that giving respect to your age if some young was their would have given him two hands.

Then crossed the road and started walking and then a thought came.....

We go to malls and spend hundreds of Rupees and dont even debate for Rs 100 and here when someone is asking Rs 3 more ....we are talking abt rights etc.

Why rights we see before old and helpless people and not before .....those who charge more in big malls,shops,luxury stores,airports etc.

And that thought changed my mind....it made me think how much double standard i was.It then brought a thought ..............abt how i was fighting for Rs 3....looosing all my values of respecting old.Loosing all values of being so called educated....loosing that character...and behaving like a road side begger fighting.

And then it lead me to fact............how much we can fall from character when things become difficult.I decided after that no matter what situation is i wont loose myself...my values,my character and my beliefs.

And lets hope this life changing experience last atleast a week :-)

Intelligence is key to success and happiness

Dear All,

I started writing this blog because i realised today suddenly that all it matters in life to solve problems in just pure intelligence that means using our brains.

Nw,everyone would say...what new i have said in this.We all know people say quotes like use your brains....think abt it etc etc.But honestly,i am writing this post because we will never use it.

How Intelligence Can Solve Your Problems :-

Like most of human in this world i was always looking for god,superstions,family,friends,partners,books,strangers,internet and etc for guidance for solving problems that we come across.But i felt i neglected the most important thing which should basically should solve the problem and that is my brains.

We are in this age so easily in touch with various people who matters that we go and ask them for solutions.How many of us ....first give a full look at problem ourself and then find our own solutions and then go ahead with it.No one knows your life and your problem and its solution better then you.

You know,but i came across one more thing....if you use our brains from day one when we realise believe me you wont have problems.

Example : You are healthy right now.And today you use start using your brains and promise that all my decision now would be what my brain says then what will you do when you go to grocery to buy food.You would go for food that you know is healthy.Because you know it so well that unhealthy food causes diseases.But most of time,we dont use our brains and instead trick it by saying ...it happens to others and not me.And we indulge in unhealthy foods.We avoid exercise even when we know...it helps in keeping fit.But no,we know it and still we dont wanna do it.Why?Its not about discipline or dedication or etc but its simply because we take our brains for granted.

You know the answer to all the things you should do and not do very well.Only reason you want to go and ask someone is because he might give you an answer which you want to hear.

And technology has now given us so many options as answer.Example : You have a relationship problem and what you can do is put an question now on internet asking strangers for giving advice and helps.And what you get..a 100 people advice.And sometime you would be astonised at some of advices.Some would be humerous,some would be evil,some would be logical,some would be extream and some would be blaming you for all.And now,you would find atleast one solution which is correct looking at your perspective.But honestly tell me,didnt you knew it yourself that this was the solution.I am sure in your mind out of 100 solutions that you got from strangers 90 you had already thought.So,what i want to say here is you have the answers to all your problems.You know it well what is right for you.And all you have to do is believe in yourself.

What is a right solution to a problem?

I feel a right solution is one which is made in good way.Personal or proffesional,you have to use your mind in positive way and take the decision.Decision  based on hurting someone or creating problems for someone or for our own ego satisfaction can never be right in long run.

So,when in a problem and looking for a solution,ask yourself two questions and you know you are doing right thing.

1.Is it making me happy?If you have answer as yes go ahead and do it.

2.Is it hurting someone?If answer is yes then think twice before doing it.

You have right to be happy.We are born in this world to have smile on our face and live happily.But at same time we are social and emotional creatures and so hurting some one we should think twice before doing it.

Its old saying Lust,Desire and Anger are three major things which ruin our mind.So,remember you do not take a decision in influence of any of this three.Especially,we all know in our relationship,we tend to take our decision when we are in grip of three of above.

Be cool,calm and composed and see...everything good will come to you.

I had been a religious person,and went to extremity of my belief in god that i used to not think only and it was like i was allowing god(sub-consious and emotions) to take my decisions and so what happened.I ended up in miserable situations and then i blamed god for all the problems.

How can you blame god when you leave your job for a vacation,and when you return you are fired.Its simple ...logic.You should have your priority and all this you can do only when you think.Use your brains.Use it because difference between those who are successful and those who are failure is just mind.

One brainful guy in a family can give happiness to generations!A brainy guy will never be poor.And with his wealth,he can influence his next generations by giving them better education and give his little mind on thier solutions.

So,think...what you want to be?A person your generations thank or a person whom your immidiate family also disowns.You can bring luck,love and lady to you with intelligence and you can loose everything by being stupid.

Have you noticed most not-so good looking man have most beautiful gals...have you thought why?Because even gals like an intelligent man.(You can be rich only if have brains,and if you have inherited wealth and you are stupid then you would end up loosing all wealth in divorces)

Even Your kids would love you.If you are intelligent.An intelligent person understand others from kids to elderly.Only thing is we dont wanna use the mind!

An intelligent man can avoid thousands of problems coming to his family and himself.

So,use your brain in right way and go on path to success.

We all have been given same size brains.We all have equal brains...its just up to us how to use it.

I have written this blog,for purpose of one thing...i find in this new age...we are in so many problems and its so difficult to survive.How long can those self-help book help someone,if person is determined to ruin himself.

People blame luck,god,partners,handicapness for their failure or suffering.But go and put yourself on reason for your suffering and be honest to yourself and would see...yes i was responsible for what decision i took.

Use your brains and it will sure help you.

Yes,here their are cases where its not your fault.Example : You were driving in your lane and going as per rules on road but some drunken comes and hits your car and your loose your legs.(I know even hearing this example gives you a chill to think u lost your legs ...isnt it).Who to blame?What Intelligence can do here?I tell you the answer ....Can you unchange the happening?Can you reset that accident?NO! so take life as it has come (thats using your brains) and be fine without legs(sounds too harsh) but can anything change it!!NO

So,accepthing things as they are is being brainy.And once you accept it,you would go ahead and be happy and start finding new meaning to your life.

And now going back to fact that you still have legs and full body then why ...cry for other things???

Life is beautiful and you have one shot at it...then why not enjoy it fully,Why not be nice to everyone?

Why be in this race for money....success and what not and giving up our happiness.Define your success for yourself.

Be happy and for that you need to use your brains.

We all know to most of us,its other people who are problems and other people who bring problems to us.Hey,any problem cannot come to you without your own sanction.Yes,if your wife shouts and complains to you doesnt mean you also do same and make things worse.Instead you can be cool and calm when she is shouting etc as you also know she cant be like that more then one hour and once she is calm she would realise her mistake and come to you.So,you see using your brains matter.You used your brain by being cool in that situation.Same applies to your boss,your kids and that stranger going for rage driving.

Being cool and calm are quality of brainy people.(Steve jobs was brainy?? i say to and extend but not 100%...was he happy i dont think so..and this is why i said not 100% ...a person who is not happy is a fool.)

Want to find out an intelligent person and you would find it in smiling face.

So,a person who is intelligent is always using his brains.And he will sure change things for himself and everyone around him.

So,go and start having intelligent thoughts and implement them for greater good.

Intelligence will solve your problems and infact you would avoid 90% of problems coming to you if you start using brains from today.So,be brainy...as you have one!And help yourself and everyone around you.

May you have piece of mind!!!